"I decided to preach to him, and surprisingly, he didn't go away! When Jeff, a successful Christian publisher in Chicago, was able to spar with her considerable knowledge of biblical doctrine, she became even more intrigued.
"I wanted a man who could rise to the challenge, someone I could follow," says Lakita, who was a virgin when she married.
During the summer of 2005, 36-year-old Lakita Garth kissed her boyfriend of two years for the very first time—at the altar after they said, "I do." She and her Mr.
Right (literally—her husband's name is Jeffrey Wright) met at a health conference through a mutual friend.
If there were a dating bible for the smart man, these would be its commandments: 1. As a teenager, I always wondered, when would it happen for me?