I have been monitoring it over the last 6-8 months. I guess it was kinda out of my mind a bit as I've been busy with studying, looking after kids, house etc. Then last week I logged onto the site again and was horrified to find emails sent to men inviting them for "fun".
One line of one email sent to a gay couple read "it has been months since I last had ****......" I was distraught.
April last year I found out he was still on this site and had tried to arrange meeting men.
I tried to casually bring up bisexuality into our conversations and tried coaxing his alternative interests out of him, but no joy.
I was too shocked and scared at the time to confront him.