You run the risk of running out of messaging charm—or more likely, her attention will be taken be someone who’s actually around.
Luckily, apps like Ok Cupid allow you to keep track of people you like.
It’s lazy, it’s generic, and it suggests that the amount of effort you put into anything is minimal.
More research by Zoosk found that saying “hey” gets you 35% fewer messages.
The problem: You have an out-of-town wedding, then a business trip, then your parents are staying with you for a few days, and it’s going to be a couple weeks before you’re able to meet. You probably shouldn’t have messaged her in the first place.