Since she had read my articles on emotional honesty in , I was surprised by her accusation.I told her that in fact I had just shared my emotional truth with her, and that my feelings are my absolute truth.
I felt foolish for having gone off to the races so quickly.
Sure, she had pushed for more intimacy, but I didn't have to acquiesce.
I doubt I would have been able to see that clearly if we'd been sexual, because being sexual early in my past relationships had invariably obscured the problems and delayed the inevitable.
I'm sharing my dating anxiety in the certainty I'm not the only guy to experience mixed feelings about a woman.
I shared my feelings with her about something she'd done that had genuinely hurt my feelings.